{"id":328349,"date":"2015-11-06T09:56:07","date_gmt":"2015-11-06T14:56:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.totemweb.design\/macommunaute\/chroniques\/u23407-l-engagement-frileux-un-obstacle-a-l-emploi\/"},"modified":"2022-11-06T19:39:33","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T00:39:33","slug":"u23407-l-engagement-frileux-un-obstacle-a-l-emploi","status":"publish","type":"chroniques","link":"https:\/\/dev.totemweb.design\/macommunaute\/chroniques\/u23407-l-engagement-frileux-un-obstacle-a-l-emploi\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u2019engagement frileux : un obstacle \u00e0 l\u2019emploi"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dans le cadre de la Semaine qu\u00e9b\u00e9coise de l\u2019orientation, l\u2019\u00e9quipe de conseillers d\u2019orientation du Groupe Conseil Saint-Denis d\u00e9sire pr\u00e9senter des actions \u00e0 prendre pour faire face aux obstacles qui nous emp\u00eachent de trouver notre place sur le march\u00e9 du travail. Aujourd\u2019hui, l\u2019engagement frileux.<\/em>
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Pour bien comprendre l\u2019engagement frileux, utilisons une m\u00e9taphore li\u00e9e \u00e0 la baignade.<\/p>\n

Vous avez s\u00fbrement d\u00e9j\u00e0 vu quelqu\u2019un embarquer dans une piscine avec une lenteur extr\u00eame : cette personne trempe \u00e0 peine le petit orteil, puis le sort rapidement de l\u2019eau. \u00c7a prend beaucoup de temps \u00e0 cette personne pour aller dans l\u2019eau\u2026 et pas question qu\u2019elle se mouille au complet!
Cette personne ne saute pas sur l\u2019occasion, car son engagement est \u00ab frileux \u00bb : cette personne trouve l\u2019eau trop froide et ne se donne pas la peine de s\u2019y lancer et d\u2019ainsi s\u2019habituer \u00e0 sa temp\u00e9rature.<\/p>\n

La personne souffrant d\u2019engagement frileux a donc tout ce qu\u2019il faut pour occuper un emploi, mais a l\u2019impression, malgr\u00e9 tout, qu\u2019il lui manque toujours quelque chose. R\u00e9sultat : elle ne pose pas sa candidature aux postes offerts qui pourraient lui convenir.<\/p>\n

On tourne autour du pot, on vivote autour de l\u2019objectif en faisant d\u2019autres choses, en attendant d\u2019\u00eatre pr\u00eat. Pensez-vous qu\u2019elle sera vraiment \u00ab pr\u00eate \u00bb un jour? Pas si elle repousse le moment de s\u2019engager concr\u00e8tement dans la voie qui l\u2019int\u00e9resse.<\/p>\n

Difficile de prendre une d\u00e9cision quand on a l\u2019impression qu\u2019on va se \u00ab priver \u00bb de toutes les autres options en choisissant une voie plut\u00f4t qu\u2019une autre. En ayant mille et une raisons pour justifier le fait de ne pas choisir une voie, on finit par se priver de ce qui nous conviendrait. On reste l\u00e0 \u00e0 attendre et on regarde les autres sauter \u00e0 l\u2019eau.
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S\u2019engager dans l\u2019action pour d\u00e9jouer ses obstacles<\/strong><\/p>\n

Entre deux chaises, on n\u2019est jamais tr\u00e8s bien assis. Il vaut donc mieux choisir une option \u00e0 la fois et s\u2019y engager : il vaut mieux s\u2019asseoir sur une chaise \u00ab solidement \u00bb, plut\u00f4t qu\u2019entre deux chaises \u00ab fragilement \u00bb. Cela veut aussi dire d\u2019approfondir l\u2019option que l\u2019on a choisie et d\u2019aller jusqu\u2019au bout du chemin plut\u00f4t que d\u2019estimer superficiellement nos choix. Comme dans la piscine, on se mouille jusqu\u2019\u00e0 la t\u00eate!<\/p>\n

Bref, il faut s\u2019\u00e9couter pour foncer. Cela veut dire qu\u2019il vaut mieux \u00ab arroser son propre gazon \u00bb plut\u00f4t que de le comparer \u00e0 celui du voisin. On a plus de pouvoir sur notre vie qu\u2019on ne le pense. Il faut oser surmonter ses obstacles pour donner une direction \u00e0 sa vie afin de trouver sa place sur le march\u00e9 du travail.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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